Work to Eliminate Any Cult-like Behaviors

 

Reform Action #1 of 20   (see overview page)

The word “cult” typically has a fairly derogatory meaning. So most of us Latter-day Saints really take offence to those who stigmatize our religion with this label.  On my mission I was simply baffled by how so many other Christians could call us this with real concern.

It wasn’t until years later when I started looking at the practices of fundamentalist organizations (like the FLDS under Warren Jeffs in Colorado City) that I began to see what so many protestants and even Catholics were referring to when they called us a cult.  Its very hard for us LDS people to see these errors in ourselves, but we need to study what is wrong with organizations like North Korea, The FLDS, Scientology or other “cult-like” organizations… and stop being like them in the subtle ways that we are.

In one sense a cult is simply “a system of religious beliefs and ritual; also : its body of adherent“. By that definition, every religion is a cult. But what I (and most the world who call us this) are talking about is another definition. One that deserves the derogatory association it has. It is “a misplaced or excessive admiration for a particular person or thing” especially misplaced faith and/or admiration of a charismatic leader leading to some level of psychological enslavement. As in a personality cult.  A cult in this essence is a dictatorship of sorts, where the leader or leadership has manipulated a body of adherents into adoring and upholding them using manipulation. This is why closed dictatorships like North Korea and many other similar governments of the past are usually called “personality cults”. Many of the masses in these systems absolutely adore their leaders. In fact they are fanatically loyal to their leaders in psychologically troubling ways, because that loyalty has less to do with what their leaders have actually done for the society personally, and more to do with a culture of manipulation and indoctrination which trains children from a very young age to see and consider their leaders as divine with mystical qualities out of reach for the general masses. To understand the troubling ways Mormonism behaves like a cult, (and the things we should change) simply read this list and watch these videos on known personality cults and then compare them to Mormonism and then a discussion on what might need to change can begin.

 

Here are some warning Signs that your in a Cult, From the Cult Institute.

  1. Unreasonable fear about the outside world, such as impending catastrophe, evil conspiracies and persecutions, promoting fear of leaving the organization.
  2. Opposing critical thinking.
  3. Isolating members and penalizing them for leaving. (families & friends disowning or ostracizing members who leave the organization)
  4. Excessive and inappropriate loyalty to leaders. (unquestioning and often irrational obedience)
  5. Absolute authoritarianism without meaningful accountability of leadership.
  6. No meaningful financial disclosure regarding budget, expenses such as an independently audited financial statement.
  7. There is no legitimate reason to leave, former followers are always wrong in leaving, negative or even evil.
  8. Followers feel they can never be “good enough” (love and acceptance is far from unconditional).
  9. The group/leader is always right.
  10. The group/leader is the exclusive means of knowing “truth” or receiving validation, no other process of discovery is really acceptable or credible.
  11. Extreme obsessiveness regarding the group/leader resulting in the exclusion of almost every practical consideration.
  12. Whenever the group/leader is criticized or questioned it is characterized as “persecution”.
  13. Uncharacteristically stilted and seemingly programmed conversation and mannerisms, cloning of the group/leader in personal behavior.
  14. Dependency upon the group/leader for problem solving, solutions, and definitions without meaningful reflective thought. A seeming inability to think independently or analyze situations without group/leader involvement.
  15. Hyperactivity centered on the group/leader agenda, which seems to supercede any personal goals or individual interests.
  16. Increasing isolation from family and old friends unless they demonstrate an interest in the group/leader.
  17. Former followers are at best-considered negative or worse evil and under bad influences. They can not be trusted and personal contact is avoided.
  18. Anything the group/leader does can be justified no matter how harsh or harmful.

I lay a thorough theological and scriptural foundation for reforms concerning cult-like behaviors in my article, The Priesthood of God & Its Relationship to the Only True Church Doctrine.

 

What’s your polygamy? Lance Allred speaks in a TED talk about his experience growing up in an FLDS cult in Montana.  One of many modern FLDS groups which simply carry on the exact system created by Joseph Smith and lived by mainstream Mormonism until the United States Federal government forced its abolition.

 

If the LDS church were a government, and its leaders held political power as well as religious power (as we assume they may some day), what would it look like? It may be hard to nail down exactly, but we know it would be autocratic (absolute top down governance). And it would have very little transparency in its finances and in the inner workings of the top most leaders. North Korea has been changing rapidly since Kim Jong-Un took control, but it strikes me as strangely similar to Mormonism…

 

Much like with Mormonism, North Korea’s “order” and righteousness come at a great cost. The facade of happiness and beauty hides the sinister shadow of those who don’t conform. The non-conformists are dealt with strictly, harshly and often without mercy. Some documentaries demonize North Korea and its history, others paint it as misunderstood and benign. Whats the correct view?  I guess it depends on your perspective.

 

What is it that makes this Islamic cult creepy? Its the sneeky suspicion that these “happy” ladies aren’t actually thinking fully for themselves. Much like the North Korean’s there’s a feeling that someone has manipulated them in a way the robs them of their human right to full self determination.

I’m not saying Mormonism is just like any of these organizations. I am saying that Mormonism shares incredible similarities with them. And if there are things that seem “cult-like” and unnerving as you watch these videos… then make sure Mormonism isn’t like that… and if it is, work to change it. In my view that starts with eliminating the unscriptural autocratic governance system that has developed within Mormonism.